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Love Note Revolution | Part Two

I asked for a revolution – yes I did.  So, perhaps we’re not  yet at the place where we  qualify as a full-fledged revolution.  These things take time.  At the very least I’ve seen the beginnings of a warm-fuzzy-mushy-gushy love fest.  A miniature uprising of sappy sincerity.  A plethora of creative and inspiring messages of love, love, love.

Ummmm….it makes me feel all floaty and melty and goooood….

I received emails, I got tweets, I got pics of text messages, even a screen capture of a Facebook status update. Ya’ll aren’t shy when it comes to professing your amorous side.  At the risk of overusing a word – I LOVE it!

For the next little while I’ll try to do a post every few days with the love notes that are trickling in.  Once they start to come in waves (and I’m fully confident that they will) I’ll figure out a more manageable solution.  No matter what, I promise to share the love.

After all, just like the Beatles told us, it’s all we really need.

Phoenix Photographer Jeanette LeBlanc collects love notes

San Diego photographer Shawn Houllis tagged me on facebook with this awesome iphone text thread between her and her love

Love note collected by Phoenix Wedding Photographer Jeanette LeBlanc

But perhaps even better than this, is the love letter Shawn recently wrote to herself and posted on her own blog, together with the most beautiful photos of her very real, fabulously beautiful, utterly lovely self.  If only all of us could find the courage to open ourselves and transmit that much love to the bodies we have, that serve us every day of our lives.  This particular love note is a testament to the journey of a phenomenal women just beginning to get a glimpse of the goddess within.   If this isn’t a love note, I don’t know what is.

Once some people feel the love, they are unstoppable!  To start with, Fairbanks Alaska photographer Chelsey Mach didn’t write a love note, she picked one.  A beautiful bouquet of love for her husband (yes, even the men-folk among us deserve flowers every now and then).  Although the lilacs in the vase didn’t get photographed, she sent me a photo of the source.

In addition to the beautiful purple blooms Nicole also sent along another love note to daddy – top scribbles by the 4 year old, bottom scribbles by the 2 year old and translation by Mama!

And, to totally melt me, she sent in a picture of their garden, and explained that it was a labor of love for her children.  A piece of the “love pie” she called it.  I can’t think of anything more loving than digging in the dirt and cultivating something that will nourish your children.  I firmly believe that food grown with love just tastes better.

More to come darlings – I promise!

Love Note Revolution

Who doesn’t love a good love note?

I have an especially soft spot for the spontaneous-for-no-reason-except-that-i-love-you kind.    The sticky note on the fridge kind.  The left by my sweetheart kind.  The shaky little hearts made by a four year old kind. The kind that highlights the soft spot a self-proclaimed tough girl still has for her mama.  Not because it’s my birthday, or mother’s day, or any other commercially created, Hallmark supported kind of date.  Just because.

One day a few weeks ago, completely by coincidence, my three favorite girls all left me love notes.  Different times of day, different locations. One scrawled in sharpie and left for me to find when I opened the fridge door for soy milk.  Another proudly delivered by sticky fingers straight into my open hands and melting heart.  A third tacked to the white board by my desk, so I could look at it and smile while I worked.

And all of them just to remind me that I am loved.


phoenix wedding photographer love notes

Do me a favor, will you?  Can you think of anyone who might love a little love note action?  Your partner?  Your son?  Your best friend? Your lawn guy?   Take some time today and write a little love note or two (or ten).   It does not have to be fancy, it does not have to be long, and it certainly does not have to be profound.  Embossed paper and spritz of floral perfume totally not necessary.

Find something to write with (yes, your two year old’s chewed orange crayon will absolutely suffice) and something to write on (a page torn from your journal, your Starbucks receipt, the envelope from your water bill) and do it.  Just do it.

Doodle a heart, a ladybug, a rainbow.  Write “You are the best mother/daughter/son/photographer/lawn guy in the whole wide world” or “I think I maybe- kinda-sorta-might-just-a-little-bit like you” or “damn, those jeans make your butt look soooo fine that I feel a little weak every time you wear them”.

Or you could, just simply and perfectly, say “I love  you” and leave it at that.

But do it.  I can almost guarantee that once you do it once, you’ll want to do it again, and again, and again.  Because who does not like to be the giver of warm fuzzies, the bearer of mushy-gushy goodness, the one to make someone smile?  We all love, and we all want to be loved, and sometimes it just takes a sharpie on a yellow sticky pad to remind us of just how much a little gesture can mean.

So let’s start a little love note revolution, shall we?

PS: Humor me.  Take a picture of your love note(s).  Post them on your blog, on your facebook, on your twitter (include hashtag #lovenote).  Tag me, tweet me, comment me, email me.  I’ll post my favorites here, and the best of the best will get an extra special prize from me (and you’d better believe that prize will include a love note).

PPS: I love you. I totally do. And the embossed paper and floral perfume are  not overkill here.  I chose them just for you.

PPPS: I meant what I said about those jeans.