Fuck inhibitions

Fuck inhibitions. If your body wants to make love in the rain; do it. If your spirit wants to sing Beyoncé in the grocery store; let her. If your soul tells you to body paint a giant canvas in rainbow colors; go and make some supersized art. If your heart wants to...

Dear human: you get to want things

Dear human: You get to want things. Objects. People. Adventure. Sex. Change. Pleasure. Danger. Things you can’t even name. Like really, really want. Way down deep. Screw those commandments—you, my dear, have permission to covet. To crave. To center yourself on...

Read poetry until your body tingles

Read poetry until your body tingles. Go to an art gallery and stare at a painting until you can feel the artist’s brush strokes on your body. Gather your girlfriends and laugh until you cry. Then cry until you laugh again. March in a protest and be swept away by...

We’ve all lived too damn long lugging around this…

We’ve all lived too damn long lugging around this puritanical notion that pleasure must be villainized to protect us from ourselves. Fuck that. Seriously. The only question you need to ask is this: Is everyone involved in full personal safety and enthusiastic consent?...

The more I write openly into the space of sexual…

The more I write openly into the space of sexual sovereignty, the more I hear from humans desperate for a safe space to share. Those who have nowhere to be fully honest and real about the whys and hows and whats and whos of their body and its desire. What turns us on?...

All of life is not a learning but a remembering.…

All of life is not a learning but a remembering. Remembering the knowledge built into our bones, the wisdom spliced into our genes. Recognizing lovers from past lives, rediscovering truths long ago experienced, recalling lessons learned and learned and learned. If we...