It is possible, from a space of deep commitment, to give ourselves infinite grace (for the bad days, the not-quite-right, the missed opportunities, and even for not showing up at all) without making excuses or giving up. We can be tender and kind with our unavoidable...
Impact matters more than intention. I have hurt more people with a clear heart than I ever have with malice, but the clean lines of my intentions don’t negate the impact. I am still learning the art of a true apology. I am still learning how to stay open. I am...
You will quite likely encounter the notion that we create our own reality. This can be an empowering idea and also true is so many ways. But it is also entitled and arrogant and can quickly move into a dangerous form of gaslighting. When this happens it is an act of...
You will, at times, be the most selfish asshole you can possibly imagine. You will step out of your own integrity. You will do things you thought you would never do. The temptation is there to let your actions define your being. To carry the weight of your own failure...