I recognize one thing: in relationships where I show up with the greatest measure of self-love, I also show up with the highest levels of care (for the container of the relationship and the beloved).
No matter how much good hard solitary healing work I do on this journey, there is some work that can only be done within the potent container of a relationship that brings me to my edges & my center.
Capacity is a bigger indicator of potential relationship success than attraction, willingness, timing, desire, the Zodiac, Myers-Briggs, the Enneagram, physical proximity, logistical compatibility, or what your besties say. Do you have the capacity to show up, be...
If you are limiting your experiences of intimacy only to containers labeled sex and romance, you are entirely missing out. Love your friends with wild abandon. Cultivate life partnerships with humans you’ll never know sexually. Dive deep into a love affair that...
Teach me how to be loved. Let me show you how to love me well. School me in the workings of your heart, in the language of your bones. Let my open palm memorize the shape of your face. Tell me the stories of your scars so I can trace them with the honor of...
