Your desire is here to teach you. It awaits a response. You were born to answer the call. Ask for what you need, lover. Take what you want. You were not placed on this Earth to practice denial. Your pleasure is what the universe demands. Anything less is blasphemy....
DO NOT practice denial of self or past or grief. You don’t need the façade right now. Rip away the false face. Open wide the locked door museum exhibit of your holy history. Demolish your crumbled brick walls, your dumpster daydreams, your rusted chain link...
9 Simple Truths1. pleasure is generative2. hedonism is holy3. your body was made to feel good4. desire is your pathway home5. shame is the enemy of sovereignty6. you are allowed to want what you want7. sex can be a portal to divinity8. your life and your body belong...
We’ve all lived too damn long lugging around this puritanical notion that pleasure must be villainized to protect us from ourselves. Fuck that. Seriously. The only question you need to ask is this: Is everyone involved in full personal safety and enthusiastic consent?...
Forgive yourself. So, you did a thing that you’ve named wrong, or the world has named wrong, or a loved one has named wrong. or some powerful dudes who compiled a book of parables and myths thousands of years ago named wrong. How entirely human of you. Own it...
After a lifetime of contorting myself to fit into boxes never meant for the likes of me—it’s true. I got tired of feeling ashamed all the time. It is wildly subversive to say that I no longer feel ashamed—not in body, soul, beliefs, or movement through the world, not...
Do not settle for living a version of your life designed by another. You are not meant to be gatekeeper or the holder of secrets and shame. You are here to live free and clear and into your own wide open truth. If you are spending too much time around people who...
Has someone made you feel shame for taking selfies? For daring to believe so much in your beauty, in your style, in your badassery, in your joy, in your body, in your sensuality, in your humanity that you’d be so audacious, so bold, so (insert judgmental word of...
There is no shame in feeling broken. In seeking help. In searching for healing. Sometimes it is the breaking that leads us to the source of our own becoming. But we need not suffer alone. When you feel trauma or shame, if you feel depressed or alone – speak your...
