amen to your perfectly needy heart.

by Jeanette LeBlanc | | Body + Wisdom, Love Letters + Permission, Sex + Desire

We humans, we are needy as fuck. It’s how we’re made. But somewhere along the way, we buy into the idea that we shouldn’t need so much. Shouldn’t want so hard. Put on the armor.Place another brick on the wall.Practice your poker face.Never let ’em see you sweat....

Come Out Of The Closet (Your Body Is Here To Feel Good)

by Jeanette LeBlanc | | Body + Wisdom, Sex + Desire

Once upon a time I got embroiled in the comments section of a thread written by a woman I admired. She railed against polyamory as trauma bonding, no different from humans who enjoy a ‘vending machine of lovers’ and avoiding real connection — claiming that ‘sacred...

pleasure is the *ultimate* muse.

by Jeanette LeBlanc | | Sex + Desire, Sovereignty + Freedom, writing + creativity

truth: pleasure is the *ultimate* muse. Tell me this:When is the last time you felt good? Really good. Down to your bones. When did you last taste your own ecstasy, take it into your mouth and swallow it into your being? How long has it been since your skin sang a...

In The After: All The Ways I Will Love You Then

by Jeanette LeBlanc | | Gratitude + Attention, Sex + Desire

Imagine you showed up at my door, and it wasn’t the before time when we didn’t know, or the now time when we still don’t, but the mysterious after we can only imagine, when we’ll finally have something solid to rest inside. What if you came to me then, in the after....

We All Want. Beyond Sense. Beyond Safety. Beyond All.

by Jeanette LeBlanc | | Body + Wisdom, Sex + Desire, Sovereignty + Freedom

“She was inexperienced enough to assume what they had was love because she wanted him, and want can be a hundred times stronger than need, and a thousand times stronger than common sense… Desire, if handled incorrectly, could become a curse” Magic Lessons –...

where there is shame, there is no pleasure.

by Jeanette LeBlanc | | Sex + Desire

Où il y a de la gêne, il n’y a pas de plaisirWhere there is shame, there is no pleasure.  This is what I know to be true: 1. Your body is a good, good body and infinitely worthy of worship. 2. Pleasure is your birthright and the doorway...