Celebrate your bad decisions, you holy and wholly fumbling human. You brilliant fuckup. You with this life built from the wreckage of an endless string of choices you likely never should have made. Because somehow here you still are, undeniably a maker of the most...
Forgive yourself for the fuckups. Be gentle with yourself when you get messy. Remember to take care of you. All your tender and achy parts. You still deserve an exquisite sort of compassion. The kind that originates from the center of your own warrior heart.
You are a work of art in continuous progress.Quit judging yourself for not being finished yet (hint: it doesn’t work that way, love).Not with art. Not with healing. Not in relationships. Not in work or passion or love. Not anywhere in the complex and...
It is possible, from a space of deep commitment, to give ourselves infinite grace (for the bad days, the not-quite-right, the missed opportunities, and even for not showing up at all) without making excuses or giving up. We can be tender and kind with our unavoidable...
Hold yourself to high standards. Own your integrity. Insist on it with ferocity. Be just as relentless with graceful acceptance of your own messy and flawed humanity. Most importantly, be rooted fully in constant and steady forgiveness of self.
Give yourself a wild sort of grace for how long it took you to step into the truth of your knowing. As women we are taught and conditioned from the word go to dismiss the wisdom of our own lived experiences. Unlearning this programming takes time and tenacity and more...
None of us is solely the best or worst of ourselves. Our higher selves & our shadow beings like to nestle together & do a badass bump and grind on the dance floor. It’s after hours at the club, & there’s a full-on ecstatic rave going on in the center of...
Forgive yourself. So, you did a thing that you’ve named wrong, or the world has named wrong, or a loved one has named wrong. or some powerful dudes who compiled a book of parables and myths thousands of years ago named wrong. How entirely human of you. Own it...
You will, at times, be the most selfish asshole you can possibly imagine. You will step out of your own integrity. You will do things you thought you would never do. The temptation is there to let your actions define your being. To carry the weight of your own failure...
